Fors Clavigera

If you look at your lover and see yourself, your vision is obscured.

If you love your lover in how they are similar to you, your love lacks respect.

Nor is love for difference a good thing. If you love your lover for their strangeness, you are seeing them as an adjunct to your life, an accessory.

Love your lover for who they are, complex, complete, self-created, seeking, searching.

// posted by R Durham @ 23:47